家进小偷了

thanks god,my house kena masuk pencuri yesterday,although i hv been stolen my oldish laptop, 2 laoya handphone n palm n some coins but i still in peaceful n still stable not sad ler, if compare last i will moody whole day night ,so thanks god changing me, give me such a experience PENCURI MASUK saya happy jua .... (thanks to ant to help me write this laoya blog)

the pencuri masuk to my house when i'm away from house yesterday,even though i'm home but i am not realised that my stuff was gone..till the next morning i realised all my coins was hilang..then baru i realised it...my laptop,2 laoya handphones,a palm and some cash coins about RM500 was gone...but anyway...didn't feel so sad also...dunno why,maybe as ant said..thanks to god..well...i thinks this is the good starter year 2008 to me even rumah kena masuk pencuri...haha...atleast i got lots of frens helping me :) we must think positively ya know?HAHA

p/s : Antzzz.........i don't have money to pay u anymore....so don't tagih from me ya...keke

消費式的愛情

和老友吃飯談起彼此朋友間的感情
感概萬分

大家會想如果合不到就要分手
為什麼我們的公公婆婆養育了我們父母這麼多年沒有離婚呢
在古代盲婚啞嫁的時候
那些夫妻又是怎樣處理彼此的合不來呢

有時自已覺得
我們這一代太過講求「自我」
換一個貶義的字，就是「自私」
當然正面的說法亦有很多

我們的社會
我們的文化所鼓吹的愛情觀就是
「合不來，是沒有將來！」「合不來，就要分手」
而不是鼓吹「合不來，就要忍耐！」「合不來，就要遷就！」「合不來，也有將來！」

我們這一代的愛情觀就變得好像我們的消費文化一樣
男友或女友只是一件商品
商品過時的或發現不合自已的
隨時可以換過一件新
直到換到一件是合於自已的

有錢有條件的就會想選個更好的
而不會重視自已曾為一段過去的感情所付出的情、淚，以致一切。